How To Spot a Batterer Before the Relationship Begins

by Brenda Branson (Hanson, Kentucky) Copyright © 2004  The following red flags are characteristics of an abuser.  This does not mean that everyone who demonstrates one or two of these qualities will end up abusing or battering their partners. However, these red flags should be taken seriously.  If someone you know demonstrates one or two of these patterns on a consistent basis, he has the potential to become a batterer. Superior attitude toward women. Does he think men are superior to women?  Does he feel he “owns” you and has the right to control your thoughts and actions?  Does he talk about women in […]